YOU'LL NEVER BELIEVE WHAT HAPPENED to LACEY: CRAZY STORIES ABOUT RACISM by Amber Ruffin and Lacey Lamar

 

Published in 2021 by Grand Central Publishing.
Read by the authors, Amber Ruffin and Lacey Lamar

Duration: 5 hours, 21 minutes.

Unabridged.

Amber Ruffin is a writer for Seth Meyers' late night show and she has a show on the Peacock streaming service. I have never watched her show (nothing against her - I just can't keep up with all of the platforms out there) but I have run across video clips on social media. Ruffin's style is very quick and very clever. In this book, she doesn't get into sexual topics or anything that a lot of people would find objectionable.

Except for the racism. There is a lot of racism. Just tons of it.

Amber Ruffin (left) and Lacey Lamar (right)

Lamar and Ruffin are sisters. They grew up in Omaha, Nebraska. And, they are African Americans. Ruffin moved away to New York City and has made a living in comedy. Lamar stayed in Omaha and has worked in health care.  The premise of the book comes from Lacey Lamar's habit of texting Ruffin when she runs across a racist comment, racist act, racist note or just plain old racists. Usually the stories start with, "You'll never believe what happened..."

Ruffin would read these to her friends and everyone said that she needed to collect this seemingly non-stop stream of texts and put into a book. So, they did.

There's not a lot of stories of extremely overt racism, like someone screaming, "N*****!" at people in the middle of the street in some old Civil Rights Era black and white video. Sadly, there are some things like that, though - like the guy that insisted multiple times that he didn't have to install air conditioning in his commercial kitchen because all of the employees were "Africans" and were built to take the heat.

Instead, there's a lot of what might be called microagressions. Lots of people assuming and commenting on their beliefs that Lamar didn't have a father growing up, people assuming Lamar grew up in poverty, can't afford nice things, has never been to nice resturant, etc. 

Ruffin and Lamar point out how ridiculous the comments are, why they are racist and the reality of things with a lot of charm and grace. It is an entertaining, upbeat book, despite the topic. If you think about it, it is quite the accomplishment to keep up that tone in the book and in life. 

Sadly, the people that read the book are not the ones that really need to read it, but we've all got some tightening up to do. Life's tough enough without going out of our way to make it tougher on each other. It's also tough enough that we should thing twice before making certain assumptions and comments.

I rate this audiobook 4 stars out of 5. It can be found on Amazon.com here: YOU'LL  NEVER BELIEVE WHAT HAPPENED to LACY: CRAZY STORIES ABOUT RACISM by Amber Ruffin and Lacey Lamar.