THE FLAG, the CROSS, and the STATION WAGON: A GRAYING AMERICAN LOOKS BACK at HIS SUBURBAN BOYHOOD and WONDERS WHAT the HELL HAPPENED (audiobook) by Bill McKibben

 

Published in 2022 by Macmillan Audio.
Read by Eric Jason Martin.
Duration: 6 hours, 39 minutes.
Unabridged.

McKibben looks back at his life in the suburbs in the 1960s and the 1970s and modern America and compares the two,

In certain circles this is an invitation to complain about the modern world with comments like, "When I was a kid, we didn't have all of this blah, blah, blah foolishness."

This is not that sort of book.

McKibben looks at three general areas:

1) The way that history was taught and the ways that he perceived that his country acted ("The Flag"). He grew up in Lexington, Massachusetts and was a tour guide as a young man for tourists who came to celebrate the bicentennial in 1976. The more he has learned, the more he knows that he was taught a simplistic, feel-good version of American history in school;

2) The things that his church taught him and how churches have fared over the intervening years ("The Cross"). He grew up and was very active in his church. He is really quite complimentary of his church upbringing. But, all denominations of churches have been shedding members. He even describes how one of the churches he attended had to consolidate with another congregation.

His thesis is not that the church in America was doing bad things, necessarily. His thesis is that the church gave up its best role - the role of speaking truth to power (for example, of the Old Testament story of when the prophet Nathan went to King David to tell him that he was wrong for sleeping with Bathsheba, the wife of one his trusted soldiers and then having that soldier killed so he could keep her).

Instead, the church became a part of the power structure. It worked with the government with the best of intentions. It seemed like a good idea to put these two institutions to work on social issues, but it neutered the church when it came to calling out the government on areas where it fell/falls short because the church owes certain things to the government or it is just too tied in to see the problems. McKibben uses the example of an attempt to build low income apartments in Lexington that was nixed because "those people" would come out of Boston and live with them in the suburbs. 

Bill McKibben in 2016
(photo by Gage Skidmore)

3) The situation of the American family and how it has changed over the years, including the wealth gap, how it relates generational wealth and policies that have exacerbated the wealth gap, especially among minority groups. He also throws in a healthy serving of environmental concerns - an area that he was worked in for a long time ("The Station Wagon"). This ties in well with the low income apartments in the previous paragraph.

I found this book to be a well-written and surprisingly tight set of arguments, considering that this book could have meandered all over the place with the topics of American history, the church in America and the American family. At the end, McKibben tosses in too much environmental discussion. It is the only part of the story that is not very tight, very focused and very integrated with the rest of the book. I'm not saying he didn't have a point, I am saying that it may not have been the best place to insert that point.

Still, I rate this book 5 stars out of 5. It can be found on Amazon.com here: THE FLAG, the CROSS, and the STATION WAGON: A GRAYING AMERICAN LOOKS BACK at HIS SUBURBAN BOYHOOD and WONDERS WHAT the HELL HAPPENED (audiobook) by Bill McKibben.